 Something has shifted on a deep and significant level for me. This may be a result of my Yin yoga practice. It may be the effect of major shifts in my life during the past several months. It certainly is having my soulmate hold a mirror up to me and my patterns around love.Whatever the contributing factors, I've come to the realization that there is only one way to love, and that is unconditionally, without reservation, and without regard to the outcome. To some, that may sound self-sacrificing; yet it isn't. I continue to ensure that I meet my needs, including expressing them to others if their involvement or cooperation is required, and I'm happy to move in and out of situations if they don't feel right for me, whether that has to do with my home, job, or relationship. However, I've discovered that there is incredible freedom and joy in loving someone for the opportunity of expressing that love. It moves me out of "what will you do for or to me?" It stops the question, "Will you love me or hurt me?" It shifts it to, "How can I understand you better? What can I give you?" This shift moves us from grasping to giving, and it's only when we have an open hand that we can receive the gifts of the universe. It also sets up a wave effect. As we freely allow Love to flow through and out of us, it rushes right back in through beautiful and unexpected channels. This offering up of love does not restrict itself to a romantic relationship. Indeed, as conduits of Divine Love on earth, we can freely provide that energy to everyone we meet, whether they are ready to receive it or not. It's really none of our business what others do with the Love we offer. It's just our role to let it move through and out of us. Often, when I'm struggling with a particular stage of my personal growth, the Universe speaks through someone that day, giving me the exact guidance or support I need. Indeed, it wants to communicate through us all, if we just get out of the way and allow it. What's tremendous about this realization is that it takes the emphasis off of receiving from someone in particular. How often do we become angry and bitter because we felt that someone should treat us in a particular way? When we surrender to the Universe, and accept that our needs will be met through a greater wisdom than our ego can summon, we move from blame to compassion, realizing that others may be suffering and unable to offer anything that day... but that it will come to us through the appropriate channel at the right time. I prefer to live in Truth, knowing that my sole purpose - indeed everyone's purpose - is to be Love expressing itself today. However you do it, you are the Love of the Universe... and the Universe/God/All That Is doesn't play favourites and doesn't care if anyone loves it back. |
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